Turn Holiday Gift Giving Into Lessons About Generosity and Personal Responsibility

It is no secret that families will be forced to cut backcreativity. I am thinking of handmade quilts, colorful
on holiday spending this year because of the badartwork, homemade candles, family scrapbooks, hand
economic climate. Still, there is no need to let theknit scarves or sweaters, coupons for a certain
bad-time blues dampen your holiday spirit.number of auto washes, lawns mowed, or side walks
I have always been a critic of those big commercialshoveled free of snow. Half the fun of giving gifts like
holidays where people maxed out their credit cards tothese can be planning the activities to create them.
buy all the hot toys and gadgets their children wanted.3. Instead of working extra hours to raise the money
This year represents a great opportunity for parentsfor all those commercial gifts, think of how much more
to teach their children how to give and to makeyour children will enjoy the hours you spend with them
responsible choices while still keeping the holidayhelping them make gifts for family members. I saved
festive.the homemade gifts my daughter gave me, but I
Money is not our only problem this year. We have acannot remember most of the store-bought presents.
troubled environment that is showing tremendousSpend your limited budget on an inexpensive camera
distress due to global warming. So this is a great timeor materials the whole family can use to create their
to teach our children about conservation and recycling.gifts. You could let the family decide the best way to
What is in all of those materials we have been buying?spend $25 to $100 for materials. Imagine the
Are they good for the environment? Should weexcitement of trying to keep that gift secret until
consider different choices that will be kinder to theChristmas Day, Hanukkah or Kwanzaa.
world our children inherit?4. Plan a fun, festive but inexpensive meal, like
Here are four great holiday gift-giving ideas yourdecorating cupcakes where the whole family gets
children will love:involved. Encourage family members with special
1. Get your children to donate toys they havetalents to prepare skits or concerts, and create the
outgrown, that are still in good condition, to lesskinds of family gatherings your children will remember
fortunate youngsters. Just the activity of picking outfor a lifetime.
the toys and cleaning them up can be a great way toIt is not about how much money you spend. It is about
teach young children about generosity and personalthe time shared, the thoughtfulness of family members,
responsibility?the love and generosity and the responsibility people
2. What about exchanging names and encouragingtake for each other, the environment and the world
everyone to give a gift that does not involve money?around them.
Sometimes the best gifts involve your time and