| Breakups can be nasty and bad for the ego, especially | | | | what he has to say. While you're at it, smile. Never |
| if you've been dumped by a gorgeous hunk. Your pride | | | | mind if your heart is hammering wildly. Stay cool. |
| will not allow you to take the drastic steps to snatch | | | | If the man you want is a co-worker, ask him to help |
| him away from another woman's arms. If there's | | | | you with computer glitches, or get his advice and |
| someone who has shown you some passing interest, | | | | opinion on some gizmos. He'll gladly give his two cents' |
| follow this up without going overboard. You'll need the | | | | worth of counsel. Be friendly without being too |
| subtle arts of seduction for this highly explosive and | | | | sickeningly sweet. Try to maneuver a moment alone |
| secret mission. | | | | with him over a cup of coffee. |
| Woman, The Huntress | | | | If the guy invites you out on a friendly date, accept |
| Waiting for a man to propose or show even the | | | | with grace and don't don those outrageous outfits and |
| slightest interest in you can be infuriating, especially if | | | | put on too much makeup just to impress him. Wear |
| you do want him to notice you. The person could be | | | | something in your closet that's comfortable, as well as |
| someone in the workplace, a friend, or even someone | | | | attractive. Show some skin, but not too much. When |
| you frequently see at the bar where you spend those | | | | he compliments you, tell him that he makes you feel |
| nights-out with pals. He could be your classmate, or | | | | beautiful. It's a subtle start. Don't return the compliment |
| even your older brother's best friend. Whoever he is, | | | | just because he gave you one. But if he looks really |
| the challenge is just as hard to hurdle when you don't | | | | good, say so. |
| want him running away from you. | | | | After the date, don't call him. Let him call you. Thank |
| Just be yourself and he'll like you for what you are. He | | | | him for the enjoyable evening and don't inveigle |
| has been with a lot of women and copying the style | | | | another invitation. If you have piqued his interest, he'll be |
| of movie stars may not appeal to him. If he has known | | | | calling and sending you emails and planning dates in |
| you for long, do not transform yourself overnight into a | | | | advance. Now don't play too long at being hard-to-get. |
| siren to captivate him. You might be sending the wrong | | | | He might just call it quits. |
| signals. | | | | If he is someone you want back, you'll have to change |
| Hunt your prey with an open mind, patience, and, of | | | | gears. After the break-up, don't be moaning your loss |
| course, with a few unique gifts for men, Make sure, | | | | to friends. Dress up and join the fun. Don't keep on |
| however, that there's an occasion for it. You don't | | | | moping and crying your eyes out. Be his friend and let |
| want to spill the beans too early. If he still can't get the | | | | him know you're just around if he needs you, but don't |
| hint, you'll have to be more creative without coming | | | | be too visible and crop up at all parties and gatherings |
| across as a vamp. | | | | when you know he's bound to show up. He'll be |
| Let Him Sit Up and Notice You | | | | annoyed instead of glad to see you. |
| If the guy's your brother's best friend, the task is easy. | | | | These are the subtle strategies of seduction that won't |
| Just be yourself as he has known you for years. | | | | burn you. But if the guy doesn't respond, then don't |
| Perhaps you'll have to start talking to him and making | | | | waste your time on him. He's not your Mr. Right. |
| those eye contacts as if you're just plainly interested in | | | | |